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Cover of The Guncle. Yellow background, palm tree on the top right corner, pool in the bottom third of the cover, with a man in a kimono and a drink in his hand walks in front of a little boy with an ice cream cone, a girl with a book, and a a dog in the rear.

The Guncle

Cover of The Guncle. Yellow background, palm tree on the top right corner, pool in the bottom third of the cover, with a man in a kimono and a drink in his hand walks in front of a little boy with an ice cream cone, a girl with a book, and a a dog in the rear.

Rowley, Steven. The Guncle. New York : G. P. Putnam’s Sons, [2021].

Book content warning: Death, LGBTQ+ themes, homophobia, and a brief allusion to suicide.

Every now and then, I come across a book that pleasantly surprises me when I step out of my comfort zone of psychological horror thrillers. Those are always exciting to me – but after reading so many of them in a row, my mind needs a lighthearted break and a chance to laugh.

That is exactly what The Guncle by Steven Rowley provides: a witty and fun story about navigating the process of grief and finding your way back to who you are, that is equal parts hilarious and touching.

In this critically acclaimed book, Rowley introduces us to the charming character of Patrick, a TV sitcom actor with a somewhat stalled career who is struggling with finding a new path in life. Patrick’s brother calls him one day to give him terrible news: his wife (who is also Patrick’s lifelong best friend) has died after a long battle with a terminal illness. To help his brother, Patrick agrees to take his niece and nephew back to his house in California for the summer. In doing so, he assumes a role of guardian that he is very ill prepared for.  

What ensues is a hilarious and adventurous summer for Patrick and the kids that brings them closer than ever! Patrick’s niece and nephew lovingly call him GUP, short for Gay Uncle Patrick. And Patrick takes on this honorable role very (un)seriously, introducing them to the wonders of brunch, The Sound of Music, dancing, and plenty of afternoon swims in Patrick’s pool, while imparting little nuggets of wisdom to the kids that Patrick calls “Guncle Rules”.

This book took me on a magnificent rollercoaster ride of emotions. The story is well paced, with plenty of humor that helped me get through this book a lot quicker than most books I pick to read. As a character, Patrick is quite charming, and his delivery of quick and witty one-liners in response to his niece and nephew’s antics and heavily inquisitive nature kept me laughing with every turn of the page. Patrick’s growth while navigating the rough waters of parenting that he never even thought about dipping his toes in, even if only temporarily, is also inspiring.

But the one thing that I loved the most about this book is that, at its core, there is a heartfelt and captivating story about grief, how it affects people in different ways, and the emotional turmoil that we have to overcome to keep living our lives after a loss. Patrick has experienced lots of loss in his life. He tries his best to help his niece and nephew come to terms with their mother’s death, while also figuring out how to process his own grief. As a result, a series of tough, honest, and emotionally heavy conversations among Patrick and the kids are sprinkled throughout the book that brought quite a few tears out of me. The humor provides much needed comic relief after those moments, but I strongly recommend having some tissues ready before reading this book.

If you love a story that is dynamic and charming, that will have you laughing while also giving you plenty of moments for introspection about life, loss, and healing, this book is definitely for you. And after you are finished reading it, you can also check out the equally amazing sequel, The Guncle Abroad, in which Patrick and the kids take their adventures all the way to Europe!

Fabian R-J is a Library Assistant at May Memorial Library.

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Meet Fabian

We are excited to welcome Fabian as a Reference Assistant at May Memorial Library! Fabian is bilingual and serves as our local history specialist. He has years of professional photography experience and expertise in library resources.

Photo of staff member Shawn

How long have you worked with the County? 

A little over a year now. I started as a part time Reference assistant at the Mebane Library branch in April of 2025. I then transferred to May Memorial in July 2025, and I just became a full time Reference librarian for May Memorial. 

Where are you from originally? 

I was born and raised in Puerto Rico, but I have been living in the continental US since I graduated from high school. 

What are you most passionate about? 

Photography is my biggest passion for sure. Love capturing moments, places and people as I see them. But I am also passionate about art, fitness, music, and living your life as best as you can. 

Do you have a hobby? 

Lots of them. I am an artist, so I love drawing and painting. I am also a nerd at heart, so I love to read, write, play games (both board and video games), work on puzzles, and learn random facts. 

When you were little, what was your dream job? 

I had high hopes of becoming either a singer, an actor or a dancer growing up. I even took piano and singing lessons in middle and high school and was briefly part of a small dance group in college. Life, however, had very different plans for me. But I have always wanted to get back to all of those, so who knows?  

What was the best part of your week/weekend? 

I love going home at the end of the day to workout, spend time with my husband and our two kitty cats, and either play a game, read a book, or draw/paint something. 

If your life was a song, what would the title be? 

Just one? I could build a soundtrack for my whole life! But off the top of my head, I can think of two songs: “God Is a DJ” by P!nk, and “Extraordinary Machine” by Fiona Apple. 

Are you involved in any community projects or organizations? 

I am a member of the Burlington Artists League and Alamance Arts. I would also love to get involved in a community theater. 

What is the weirdest thing you’ve ever eaten? 

I can’t say I have ever eaten anything considered “weird”. But I am a fan of eating stuff that can be hot topics for people: eating fries with ice cream, pineapple on pizza, burgers with a donut for a bun… maybe I am weird, I dunno. 

What’s your favorite TV Show? 

The Walking Dead. I am currently in the middle of reading all of the Walking Dead comic books. Then I will rewatch the entire TV series. 

What is your favorite thing to spend money on? 

Traveling (whenever I can), new video games to play, books, and art supplies.  Oh, and FOOD! 

What’s the most interesting thing you’ve learned recently? 

The fear of long words is known as Hippopotomonstrosesquippedaliophobia. First off, try pronouncing that! I definitely had to copy and paste it! And second, whoever named it is either very mean or probably has a very twisted sense of humor.

Cover of CD, All of Me by Masayoshi Takanaka. Man skydiving over a dark blue ocean and an island.

All of Me by Masayoshi Takanaka

All Of Me Masayoshi Takanaka (2006) | hoopla

Cover of CD, All of Me by Masayoshi Takanaka. Man skydiving over a dark blue ocean and an island.

All of Me by Masayoshi Takanaka is a true jazz fusion masterpiece. If you’ve never experienced Takanaka before, this is such a great place to start. For a long time, this album was only available on CD or vinyl, so having it easily accessible on Hoopla feels like a gift.

This collection pulls together some of Takanaka’s most iconic early work and wraps it into one perfect package. From the first track, you’re transported somewhere warm and bright. The weather always feels perfect, the sun is always shining, and the ocean is never far away.

The guitar work is smooth but energetic, technical but never overwhelming. It’s the kind of album you can put on in the background and vibe to, or sit down and really listen to and catch something new every time.

If you need music that lifts your mood and takes you somewhere better for a while, this is it. Absolute classic.

Tyler J. is a Library Assistant at Mebane Public Library.

Cover of Hyperbole and a Half. Yellow cover with hand-drawn person and dog. Subtitle is "unfortunate situations, flawed coping mechanisms, mayhem, and other things that happened"

Hyperbole and a Half

Cover of Hyperbole and a Half. Yellow cover with hand-drawn person and dog. Subtitle is "unfortunate situations, flawed coping mechanisms, mayhem, and other things that happened"

Brosh, Allie. Hyperbole and a Half. New York : Simon & Schuster, 2013.

Sometimes after finishing an epic adventure or a story full of darker themes you need something to act as a palate cleanser before diving into the next book on your TBR list. For me, that book is the graphic novel Hyperbole and a Half by Allie Brosh.

The illustrations are hilarious, with an art style that feels familiar to those who love scrolling through memes online. This collection of stories is filled with heartfelt moments and honest humor. She has an amazing ability to make you feel like she is sitting right beside you, sharing these stories like an afternoon gossip session with a friend.

What makes this book special is how well balanced the stories are. Allie recounts various stories from chaotic childhood misadventures that reminded me of my own, to adult struggles that made me reflect on the importance of mental health awareness. My favorites include her first encounter with a birthday cake, watching her dogs act in silly ways, and a showdown with a feral goose. I found myself having to put the book aside several times because I was laughing too hard to keep reading.

If you are looking for something to read in between heavier books, trying a new genre, or craving a good laugh, this book is for you!

Kayla H. is a Library Assistant at May Memorial Library.

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Hoopla – Music

Hoopla is a great resource for eBooks and audiobooks, but did you know you can also check out music albums? While it seems you can find your favorite songs and artists through so many different sites and apps, it becomes a bit trickier to find a way to listen to a complete album for free and without commercials. Hoopla is the solution for you! Once you check out the album, you have seven days to listen to it as many times as your heart desires. You will have the opportunity to listen to the album as the artist intended, with the original song arrangement and without the interruption of advertisements. You may even find a new appreciation for the artist or a new favorite song.

Whether you are looking for chart-toppers, rock, gospel, or K-Pop, Hoopla has something to offer.  Multiple different languages of music are available. To sign up for Hoopla you will need your library card and an email address. Both an app and web version are available. If you need help signing up or using Hoopla, be sure to ask your librarian! Any ACPL branch will be able to assist you.

Photo of staff member Shawn

Meet Shawn

We’re excited to welcome Shawn as a Library Assistant at Mebane Public Library! Shawn brings a passion for public service, years of teaching experience, and great enthusiasm for her new role.

Photo of staff member Shawn

How long have you worked with the County?

I just started working in Alamance County, but I’ve lived in Saxapahaw since 2020. Before this, I worked at the Randolph County Public Libraries (Liberty), where I deepened my love for community-centered public service.

Where are you from originally?

I grew up in a military household, so “home” moved around a lot. I was born in Germany and spent most of my childhood in South Carolina.

What are you most passionate about?

I’m passionate about intentional parenting—especially nature- and art-based empathy-building practices that foster creativity and self-expression. I worked as an outdoor preschool educator for ten years before moving into public libraries. I also learned a great deal about conscious, gentle parenting through raising my daughter, Magnolia, and those lessons continue to evolve as she grows into each new stage of childhood and adolescence.

Do you have a hobby?

Spending time outside is both my favorite hobby and my favorite reset. Whether I’m walking the dog, reading under a tree, biking long distances, or kayaking with my family, I’m happiest outdoors. I also enjoy dabbling in all kinds of crafts—trying new things is part of the fun.

When you were little, what was your dream job?

I wanted to be a veterinarian all the way through high school—until I shadowed a vet during surgery. The sights, sounds, smells, and fluids quickly led to some serious soul-searching. It was intense sensory overload, and I realized I might need a different calling.

What was the best part of your week/weekend?

My daughter and I like to experiment with different self-care rituals to unwind from busy weeks. This time, we tried a kid-friendly salon and got mani-pedis together. I’m very low-maintenance, so it felt extra indulgent to get pampered with foot rubs and fancy nails—now I just have to relearn how to type with them!

If your life was a song, what would the title be?

If my life were a song, it would be Innerbloom by RÜFÜS DU SOL—grounded, a little psychedelic, and the kind that unfolds slowly the more time you spend with it. I love EDM, and honestly, I always want to dance—whatever hits the right frequency in the moment.

Are you involved in any community projects or organizations?

I served in the U.S. Peace Corps for three years in West Africa (The Gambia), which deeply shaped my values around community development and service. Locally, I help with my daughter’s Scouting America Cub Scout pack and occasionally volunteer at her school. Last fall, I also started a group called Trashy Tuesday in Saxapahaw to help clean up the Haw River trails after the major flood. It was a great way to care for places I love while getting outside and moving my body.

What is the weirdest thing you’ve ever eaten?

The word weird is pretty subjective—what’s strange to one person might be a delicacy to another. If we define “weird” as unexpected, then some surprise menu items have included squirrel, groundhog (woodchuck) stew, monitor lizard, and a few unidentified goat parts.

What’s your favorite TV show?

I love Bob’s BurgersKing of the Hill, and SpongeBob SquarePants. I don’t take TV too seriously—it’s usually on in the background while I’m doing something else. Plus, these are shows I can enjoy with my daughter and husband. They don’t quite share my enthusiasm for Vikings or Victorian-era romance dramas.

What’s the most interesting thing you’ve learned recently?

I was going to share something really profound, but then my brain filed it under “later.”

Cover of Career Rookie: A Get-It-Together Guide for Grads, Students, and Career Newbies

Job Search Help from ACPL

If you are looking for a new (or first!) job, ACPL can help. We have in-person classes, online resources, as well as some great books in our libraries.

Books

Cover of Getting from College to Career: The Essential Guide to Succeeding in the Real World

Pollak, Lindsey. Getting from college to career : your essential guide to succeeding in the real world. New York, NY : Harper Business, an imprint of HarperCollinsPublishers, 2024.

Recent college graduates and those early in their careers will appreciate the no-nonsense approach this book takes to job-hunting. This is the third edition of this book and includes information on using AI in your job search, how to interview in person and over Zoom, and how to keep your skills relevant in a fast-changing world.

Cover of Career Rookie: A Get-It-Together Guide for Grads, Students, and Career Newbies

Vermunt, Sarah. Career rookie : a get-it-together guide for grads, students and career newbies. Toronto : ECW Press, 2019.

What if you have no idea what you want to do? What if you went to school for something you now hate? What if you’re not able to get a job without experience, but you can’t get experience without a job? This book handles these topics and others with humor and a straightforward manner that young job-seekers will appreciate.

Cover of Modernize Your Resume: Get Noticed... Get Hired

Enelow, Wendy. Modernize your resume : get noticed … get hired. Supply, NC : Emerald Career Publishing, 2023.

This guide to creating an effective resumé is only a few years old, meaning that it includes information on LinkedIn, automated resumé screeners, and other challenges that have changed how we apply for jobs. Combine this book with our online and in-person resources to create the best resumé for you!

Cover of Job Moves: 9 Steps for Making Progress in Your Career

Bernstein, Ethan. Job moves : 9 steps for making progress in your career. New York, NY : Harper Business, an imprint of HarperCollins Publishers, [2024].

Changing jobs can feel like a huge gamble – will this new job move me further along in my career? Is this my dream job, or will I end up disappointed? The strategies shared in this book will help you make an informed decision before jumping to another job.

Cover of Moving Forward in Mid-Career: A Guide to Rebuilding Your Career after Being Fired or Laid Off

Weiss, John Henry. Moving forward in mid-career : a guide to rebuilding your career after being fired or laid off. New York, NY : Skyhorse Publishing, [2018].

When you lose your job mid-career, you often feel lost. This book helps you decide your next steps, whether that is to improve your skills to get another job in your field, try another field, go back to school or training, or open your own business.

Online Resources

Career Preparation from NC Live

Job and Career Help is the one-stop shop for all of our employment resources. You’ll find links to Ferguson’s Career Guidance Center, Learning Express Library, resume builders, cover letter assistance, and interview assistance.

We also have more databases and websites linked in our Online Resources under Career. This page also includes links to Northstar, Niche Academy, Udemy, GCF Global, and Digital Learn, where you can extend your technical and job skills through online classes.

In-Person Classes

Career Compass program series

We are offering in-person classes, some in conjunction with ACC. Visit our calendar of events to see what is being offered this month!

Check back soon for more Spring Career Compass information, including classes, mock interviews and our Community Closet!

Cover of Because of Miss Bridgerton. Woman in blue dress, can not see her eyes, but you can see a couple of red curls. There are pink flowers behind her. Labeled as a Bridgerton Prequel. Historical romance.

Bridgerton Read-Alikes

Love is right around the corner and if you’re anything like me, you’ve already binged the first half of season four of Bridgerton and are counting the days until the second half drops. In the meantime, check out some of these Regency and Victorian book recommendations to tide you over until the conclusion of Benedict and Sophie’s story.

Cover of To Have and To Hoax. Red background. Man and woman in period dress, back to back. Woman has her arms crossed; man has his hands in his pockets. Both look irritated. Historical romance.

Looking for a modern spin on the classic Regency-era novels? Try Martha Waters’ Regency Vows series, a completed five book, standalone series. To Have and to Hoax starts us off with estranged husband and wife as they enact a prank war to spite one another but rekindle their love along the way. The rest of the series follows characters from Violet and James’ friend group with tropes like enemies to lovers, marriage of convenience, and second chance romances.

Cover of Never Fall for Your Fiancee. Orange background, with a man and woman in period dress. You see the back of the woman on a porch, and the gentleman facing her standing under a tree. Historical romance.

Virginia Heath’s Merriwell Sisters follows down on their luck sisters Minerva, Diana, and Venus. Opening with Minerva’s story, Never Fall for Your Fiancée, as she tries to support herself and her sisters after their father up and abandons them, Minerva seizes the opportunity to play fake fiancé for the Earl of Fareham. As hilarity ensues and stories get crossed, so do feelings as Minerva and the Earl realize that they might just be falling for one another but are questioning how one can truly start when the beginning of the relationship was a farce?

Cover of Bringing Down the Duke. Man and woman riding a horse with the background of 1800s buildings behind them. Historical romance.

Evie Dunmore not only brings the vibes we all love from these genres, but she brings a little dash of political intrigue with her four main heroines being a part of the suffrage movement in late 19th Century Victorian England. In Dunmore’s debut novel, Bringing Down the Duke, we meet Annabelle Archer, our first member of the Oxford Rebels. Annabelle kicks starts the series A League of Extraordinary Women by seeking the aid of Sebastian Devereux, the Duke of Montgomery, to keep her scholarship and to influence the political scene of England.

Cover of A Lady's Guide to Mischief and Mayhem. Blue background with a man and a woman in period dress, in front of the backdrop of buildings (probably London). Historical romance.

A Lady’s Guide to Mischief and Mayhem, the first entry in the Ladies Most Scandalous series by Manda Collins, pairs our Victorian heroines with serious detectives as they both rush to solve the case. We open in England 1865, and Katherine has not only reported and led to the catching of a notorious murderer, but she has also now witnessed another murder! After reporting and advising the public of this act, Katherine is being accused by Detective Inspector Andrew of inflaming the masses rather than informing, and Katherine cannot stand for that. So, she vows to solve the crime before the Detective Inspector can. Collins truly keeps readers on our toes with her mystery/thriller elements in this four-book series.

Cover of Earls Trip. Three men in a carriage at the bottom of the hill, with one couple holding hands and walking up the hill, and another couple on a blanket further up the hill, and a castle at the top of the hill. Historical romance.

Jenny Holiday’s Earls Trip series is the only series I have on here that is ongoing as only books one and two have been published. Holiday gives us a delight modern feel for Regency romance as readers follow a set of three earls on their annual holiday trip. Archibald Fielding-Burton is such a lucky man for having not one, but two best friends. Men who have known each other since their school days, know of the pressures and skeletons in their closets. And Archibald needs this get away with his two best mates! But when a letter from an old family friend arrives asking for Archibald’s help, what else is he supposed to do? So now, the boys’ trip is no longer just a boys’ trip – it includes Clementine, the daughter of the old family friend, who is grown and surprising Archibald. (Book three, Brown Eyed Earl, is expected to hit shelves late 2026 according to the author’s Instagram.)

Cover of Because of Miss Bridgerton. Woman in emerald green dress looking in a mirror and looking satisfied. Historical romance.

Now I know if you’ve gotten this far that you have enjoyed Julia Quinn’s Bridgerton series in one format or another. But did you know that she wrote a prequel series to Bridgerton called Rokesbys? This series not only follows a family of Bridgertons before we knew of the ones Netflix brought to our screens, but also the Brothers Rokeby. The two families have been neighbors for centuries, creating a perfect beginning for Billie Bridgerton and her frenemies to lovers’ relationship with George Rokesby in book one, Because of Miss Bridgerton. This is a completed four book series (as there are four Rokeby brothers!).

Kayleigh Dyer is a Library Technical Processing Assistant at May Memorial Library. Contact her at kdyer@alamancelibraries.org.

Cover of The Monsters We Defy. Dark smoky blue background, with a city block in red on the bottom. In the forefront is a young Black woman in profile wearing a violet cloche hat with a pink flower, and green vines are growing around her.

The Monsters We Defy

Cover of The Monsters We Defy. Dark smoky blue background, with a city block in red on the bottom. In the forefront is a young Black woman in profile wearing a violet cloche hat with a pink flower, and green vines are growing around her.

Penelope, Leslye. The Monsters We Defy. New York, NY : Redhook, 2022.

Content Warnings: death, racism, references to slavery, violence.

I stumbled upon this book in a list of great magical realism novels and was thrilled to see that we had it at ACPL! Once I began reading it, I didn’t want to stop. What’s not to like with a setting of 1920s Black Broadway in Washington, D.C., characters talking to spirits Over There, and a little romance!

Clara Johnson made a deal with an Enigma years ago when she was imprisoned for killing a policeman in self-defense. The Empress, a strong spirit, gave her a Charm (a gift) that she refuses to use again, and a Trick, which compels her to aid anyone who asks her for help. She often communes with the spirit world to help people find answers to questions and solve problems. Unfortunately, that often means people are signing up for their own Charm and Trick, not realizing how much trouble they’re getting into.

Black DC residents are disappearing in droves. Before they disappear, they seem possessed, like a zombie. A mother comes to Clara with her afflicted son, but when Clara tries to connect with the spirit world, the Enigmas are silent. That has never happened before.

When she contacts The Empress, she tells her that the people are under the spell of a ring, and she needs to steal it. The problem is that the ring is owned by Josephine, an opera singer with bodyguards and too much fame to make it an easy heist.

She reluctantly joins up with Aristotle Bishop and brothers Israel and Jesse Lee, who have their own Enigma debts, and Zelda Coleman, an albino woman who was sold by her family to a circus when she was young. Can they figure out what the ring is doing to possess people, where the people go when they disappear, and how to break the ring’s spell?

This book has a bit of romance, but most of it is off page. I loved the historical elements. Clara works for Dr. Woodson at The Journal of Negro History, and works with Langston Hughes there. She attends an event at the Whitelaw Hotel, with the “Luminous 400.” The book also mentions the first Negro History Week. This would be a great read for Black History Month!

Mary Beth A. is the Community Engagement Librarian for Alamance County Public Libraries.

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Welcome to the ACPL App!

Congratulations on your new Alamance County Public Library card!

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You just signed up for an Alamance County Public Library card! However, if you’re like me, your new library card might be eaten by your key ring and ripped up in a few months, and physical cards are easy to lose. If you don’t have a backup, you will have to buy a replacement card or use your driver’s license to check out books. To avoid these calamities, I recommend downloading the Alamance County Public Library App from the Google Play store or the Apple App Store!

The app is free and provides a digital version of your card that can be scanned at any checkout station or service desk. Beyond just a digital card, the app allows you to:

  • search the catalog
  • renew your books
  • add to your hold list
  • find information about your local library branch
  • explore upcoming library programs
  • connect with our databases
  • make a purchase request
  • connect with Libby, and
  • get access to our free Zoom passes for local attractions.

As you see, it’s way more than just a typical library app.

If you are managing multiple family accounts, the app is a space and time saver. Link all your family accounts in one spot, on the Alamance County Public Library app. Manage everyone’s accounts and you’ll have everyone’s cards clearly labeled digitally. Check it out now and make connecting with the library easier than before.